I adored my married neighbor at first sight. Despite knowing he was married with children, I continued. He recently requested me to watch his kids while his wife was hospitalized. I concurred. When I saw his kids, they looked like myself, which startled me.

No, not “kids kind of look like everyone”. Genuinely like me. Same eyes, nose shape, and smile dimple on left cheek. When the oldest, an eight-year-old kid, tilted his head like I did when confused, my breath stuck in my throat.

Many ideas ran through my head. Was it possible? Not possible. I had never touched him. Just psychologically. Emotionally. I built sky castles from witnessing Dad tend the grass or wave to the mailman. And that was all.

I attempted to dismiss it. My interpretation may have been overblown. Maybe it was a coincidence. After spending more time with the three kids, the similarities were too obvious. Their kindness, wit, and humor matched mine. It was like watching small mes in someone else’s world.

I casually asked him, “Your kids are adorable,” when he returned that night. They resemble someone I know.”

Though distracted, he smiled as he removed his coat. “Yeah? People believe they resemble their mom.”

I stopped talking. Though I nodded and departed, the thought kept nagging at me.

I revisited recollections from years ago the next day. I remembered donating. Ten years ago, I donated my eggs for money when I was broke and desperate. I was promised anonymity and that the children would never know me. My age was 20. Young. Naïve. I thought I was helping someone start a family.

But what if…

No sleep that night. Staring at the ceiling, I wondered whether life had a cosmic joke. I might have had children from my eggs with the man I dreamed about, possibly even a future with.

Something bold was my choice. The following time I babysat, I softly inquired, “Can I ask something kind of personal?”

He looked up, astonished but courteous. “Sure.”

“How did you and your wife have children? I hope this isn’t harsh. They look like me. A lot.”

He paused. Longer than comfortable. He moaned and rubbed his neck. We had problems conceiving. A donor was used. Egg donor. The clinic described her as smart, artistic, tall, and green-eyed.

I muttered, “That’s me,” gasping.

His eyes grew. “What?”

I gave. A decade ago. I never knew who got them.”

Room stilled. A fridge hummed in the background. He sat gently, staring at me like a ghost. You’re serious?

I nodded. I had no idea. Until I saw them. It’s like seeing fragments of myself in your home room.

Shaken, but not angry. Stressed out. “My wife doesn’t know the donor. Was anonymous. However, this is quite a lot.”

We sat silent. Nothing else to say at that point.

Events changed during the next few days. Fast. I kept babysitting, but tension was rising. Good tension. Just bewilderment. The bewilderment you experience when the world changes under your feet.

One afternoon, his wife returned. She returned from surgery glowing, exhausted, and warm. She hugged her kids and thanked me with heartfelt emotion.

Felt guilty. Very guilty.

Though I hadn’t done anything with her husband, my feelings were real. Knowing that her children were biologically my, I struggled to continue living in their home without breaking.

She invited me to tea later that week. Two of us.

I hesitated but went.

Kids played on her porch while we sat. She stared at me and said, “I know something’s going on. Between you and him.”

Heart fell. I swear nothing physical has happened. I just—”

“I’m not stupid,” she said gently. “I saw his gaze at you. Your attitude toward youngsters. I recognize you as the donor.”

I felt like a bucket of cold water was dropped on me. “How—?”

“I saw your photo. At clinic. Unfocused profile. But your eyes… I never forgot those eyes.”

Unable to speak.

She drank tea. At first, I was mad. It seemed to me that this may have been meant to happen.

“You mean what?”

She smiled sadly. “You gave us an unexpected gift. I got my kids from you. You’ve arrived. Like the cosmos drew you close. Perhaps not to take, but to heal.

Tears came. “I never wanted to intrude.”

“I believe you,” she whispered. “Now I need to ask you something.”

My guard was up.

“Please retreat.”

Like being gut-punched.

“I don’t hate you,” she said hurriedly. The reality is unknown to my kids. They need not. I must safeguard this family. Please allow space. Give us wholeness.”

I nodded, too choked to speak.

Babysitting ended after that. I avoided the block whenever possible. It hurt more than expected. Let go of the dream I never had, the kids I knew briefly, and the guy I loved silently.

Months passed. I immersed myself in job, interests, and life. Pain subsided slowly. It never disappeared completely.

On Sunday, I received a letter. Handwritten. From her.

It read:

I wanted to let you know we’re fine. The youngsters thrive. I told them about a wonderful young woman who assisted Mommy while she was sick. You’re remembered. Asking about you. I told them you were off on your own. I meant it.

Whether we communicate again or not, you’ll always be part of our tale. You mattered. We appreciate your eggs, time, attention, and love. Not lost on me. Hope you find someone who sees you as you deserve. I hope you experience the turmoil and delight you helped create.

“With love, Mira.”

After finishing, I cried. But not sad. A cleansing weep, it washed away pain, remorse, and what-ifs.

A year later, I moved. New city, job. I volunteered to tutor kids at a children’s center. Feeling right. Like I was finally using that bizarre maternal anguish for good.

Finally, I met someone. Real—not a father, neighbor, or imagination. Grounded. Honest. Also, he worked with kids. We were buddies first. We laughed over coffee. We had identical knuckle scars and told stories about growing up poor but dreaming big.

It didn’t bother him when I told him about my donor history. You built a miracle, he remarked. That deserves praise.”

That was when I realized I had reached my destination.

Not because I found my dream man. I regained myself. Along the way, I encountered someone who loved me for who I had become, not what I provided others.

Sometimes love isn’t what we expect. It might come in quiet moments, unexpected letters, new towns, and fresh starts.

Sometimes, the best endings include letting go of what we thought we wanted and making room for something better.

Life has strange ways of rerouting us. Sometimes pain is the gateway to the life we needed.

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