My fiancé called off our engagement and gave me no real reason. A few days later, I heard a knock at the door. I was sure it was him, coming to apologize. But when I opened the door, a police officer stood there instead. He was holding a large manila envelope with my name written across the front in black marker.
He asked if I was Salma Nouri. I nodded, confused and already sweating. My heart thudded against my ribs. The officer handed me the envelope and said, “This was left anonymously at the station. It’s… unusual. We thought you should have it.”
I stood there with the envelope in my hands, barely remembering to thank him. I watched him walk down the hallway of my apartment complex, then slowly shut the door behind me. I sat on the couch, turned the envelope over twice, then finally peeled it open.
Inside were ten photographs, a copy of a lease, and a flash drive. The photos hit first—my fiancé, Idris, arm-in-arm with another woman. In some, they were holding hands at a beach I didn’t recognize. In others, they were hugging outside a modest suburban house.
The lease was for that very house.
He’d signed it with the woman. Her name was Nerissa Salgado.
I dropped everything on the coffee table and sat back, stunned. My phone was already in my hand before I even thought about it, fingers shaking, ready to dial Idris. But then I stopped. What was I going to say? What could he possibly say?
I didn’t call him. I didn’t even cry. I just sat there in a silent, shaking fog.
The next morning, I plugged in the flash drive. There were three video files. The first was shaky, recorded from what looked like a car parked across the street. Idris and Nerissa came out of the house holding grocery bags. They kissed at the door.
The second video was them arguing. Loud. Nerissa screamed something about “not being second choice.” Idris said, “You think I’m gonna throw away what she has?” I rewound that part five times.
She. Me?
The third video broke me.
It was a screen recording of a voice message. Idris was talking to a friend—or maybe Nerissa. His voice was low and cold. “I just needed the ring to keep Salma happy while I got the business loan. Once that clears, I’m gone. She’s not gonna know what hit her.”
I leaned forward, bile rising in my throat. The words echoed in my ears. “She’s not gonna know what hit her.” I had co-signed a loan with him six months earlier. He told me it was for his catering business—his dream.
I texted my bank login to myself from my computer and grabbed my phone. I hadn’t checked the account since before the engagement was called off. I’d been avoiding it, too fragile to face anything that might remind me of Idris.
But there it was. A $35,000 loan. Under my name. Idris was nowhere on it.
I couldn’t breathe. I’d co-signed it, but he’d changed the paperwork. Somewhere along the line, he’d swapped me from co-signer to sole borrower.
I called the bank, and the woman on the phone confirmed it. “Looks like a revision came in via signed PDF,” she said. “Docusigned from your email.”
I never signed anything like that.
I filed a fraud report immediately. The woman said they’d investigate and would need a police report. So I went to the station. The officer at the desk was the same man who brought me the envelope. Officer Wells.
He led me into a small room and had me repeat everything. As I spoke, he grew quiet.
Then he said, “You should see this.” He left the room and came back with a different officer and a laptop. They showed me a photo.
It was Nerissa.
“She filed a missing person report on Idris three days ago.”
My mind scrambled. “Wait, what?”
“She said he told her he was going back to his ex—presumably you—and then disappeared the next day. No calls. No texts.”
So he ghosted her, too?
Officer Wells said they’d been trying to track him but he’d vanished—left both jobs, stopped using his phone, and drained an account in someone else’s name. They asked if I had any recent photos, messages, anything that might help.
I gave them the flash drive.
The days after that were a blur. I was half-devastated, half-enraged. My pride had already been shattered, and now my credit was circling the drain. I cried in grocery aisles, snapped at my mother for asking how I was, and avoided every friend who texted, “Just checking in 💛.”
Then I got a call. A woman from the fraud division. She sounded hesitant.
“We pulled the IP address from the email used to change the loan documents,” she said. “It matches your home Wi-Fi.”
I nearly dropped the phone.
I didn’t get it at first. Then it clicked.
He did it at my place. On my couch. Maybe even while I was in the kitchen making dinner.
My stomach turned. I asked if they could prove it wasn’t me. She said that’d be tough.
That was the lowest point. Knowing he’d not only betrayed me, but had done it with a smile on his face while I made him turmeric tea and listened to him vent about late payments.
I started seeing a lawyer. He said we’d need to find Idris to get any real traction.
One week later, I got a DM on Instagram.
It was from Nerissa.
“Hey. I think we got played. Can we talk?”
We met at a tiny café downtown. She was taller than I’d imagined. Poised. Like the kind of woman Idris always claimed he found “intimidating.”
She brought a folder. Inside were screenshots, receipts, and notes.
She’d been dating him for two years.
I blinked. “But we’ve been engaged for ten months.”
Her face didn’t change. “I found your photos in his Google Drive. That’s how I found your name. Then I saw your engagement photos.”
She said she’d confronted him. He claimed I was a “former fiancée who couldn’t let go.” Told her I had mental health issues and that he was “too nice” to block me.
I laughed out loud. “He said the same about you.”
She nodded. “Classic.”
Together, we pieced the whole thing.
Idris had been running the same scam—wooing women, using their names to get loans, then disappearing. But it got messy. Nerissa figured he used her for the down payment on the house, but when she started pressuring him to get married, he panicked and reactivated things with me.
When I co-signed the loan, he swapped his plan again.
“But I think he stole from someone else, too,” she said, pulling out a business card. “His ex before me. I talked to her. She said he took $8k from her savings ‘for a food truck’.”
We reported everything.
Officer Wells was stunned. “He’s got a whole pattern,” he muttered, rubbing his jaw.
They elevated the case.
And then—three weeks later—they found him.
In Austin, Texas. Working under a fake name at a fusion food cart.
I nearly laughed when I saw the surveillance photo. He had a new beard and dyed hair, but I’d know that smug face anywhere.
The arrest came fast. He was charged with identity fraud, financial fraud, and falsifying documents.
But the best part?
They recovered $22,000 in an offshore account in my name—he’d stashed it thinking he’d use it for “later.” The bank reimbursed the rest after the fraud case closed.
Nerissa got her money back too—through her bank and a separate fraud suit.
We stayed in touch. Not as friends exactly, but as something like war veterans.
Strangely, I came out of it cleaner than I expected.
I learned to read the signs. The gaslighting. The love-bombing. The way Idris never quite answered questions about the future without pivoting to something romantic or vague.
He wasn’t a criminal mastermind. Just a coward with charm and a spreadsheet.
And even though it nearly broke me, I’m thankful it happened before the wedding.
I’m dating again now—slowly, cautiously. My new guy, Eron, helps his mom run a bookstore. We met when I asked if they carried a true crime memoir about financial scams.
He smiled and said, “We do, but I can recommend something better.”
I asked him out three weeks later.
Now, we take it day by day. He knows the whole story. Didn’t flinch. Said he’d been burned before too.
Trust doesn’t come easy these days—but I’m learning.
If you’ve ever been played, scammed, or heartbroken in a way that made you question everything, I promise: healing is messy, but it’s real. And the people who hurt you don’t get the last word.
We do.
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